Dear Sally,
You are 3 months old already! There are some days when it seems like time is
flying and there are some days that it seems like you have always been
here. You are a beautiful, little
girl.
You are still a
little fickle with your nighttime feedings.
Some nights you sleep eight hours and other nights you sleep five hour
stretches. Just when I think I have you
figured out, you surprise me. For the
most part, your nighttime feedings are pretty easy. We keep eye contact to a minimum and keep it
dark in the room. Typically, you will go
back to sleep. If you wake up around 5
to eat, you seem to want to chit chat afterwards and the only way to get you to
go back to sleep is to put you in bed with us.
You are still
only eating about 4 ounces per bottle.
You spit up a lot during your feedings and for about an hour to an hour
and a half afterwards. We are concerned
there may be a reflux issue you are having.
Instead of being content after your bottles, you can be extremely
fussy. The only time we have noticed you
are not as fussy is your nighttime feedings.
I must say I am thankful for that.
You still prefer
to be swaddled at night, unless you are sleeping on your belly. We very rarely let you sleep on your belly at
night, because we are not as aware of how you are doing since we are also
sleeping. I remember thinking with your
big sister that we were going to be swaddling her until she was ready to leave
the nest. I have to admit that the thought
crosses my mind with you, too. It’s a
totally bizarre and absurd thought, I know, but it runs through my mind. I am glad to report though, that your sister
stopped being swaddled by six months, at least, so there is hope for you,
too. When you will actually fall asleep without your swaddle during naps, sometime I catch you sucking that thumb.
You still don’t
prefer tummy time unless I am allowing you to go to sleep. I have tried to make it more interesting by
putting colorful things in front of you.
I have tried laying you on the mirror on your playmat so see if that
would entice you. Nothing seems to do
the trick right now. You can hold your
head up slightly, but you are not holding it up too long or pushing up on your
forearms. I know that I shouldn’t be
doing this, but Ava went through these things not so long ago, and I have a
hard time trying not to compare you to her.
You are a very
expressive little girl. You love to
smile, especially when you have been sleeping and you just wake up and someone
comes to greet you. You love seeing our
faces in the morning and when you wake up from naps. You are also starting to
light up when your sister is around. It
is pretty adorable. You are cooing a lot
and I think you are trying to laugh, but you just can’t figure out quite how to
do that, yet. You discovered your voice
BIG TIME this month. It is pretty loud,
but cute, all the same.
Right now, I have you pegged as the
little princess between you and your sister.
I just think you are going to be a little daintier than Ava will
be. Who knows, though, really? You could totally shock me. It’s not like it hasn’t happened before.
Ava LOVES you. I mean, really! She is so cute with you. She wants to hug and kiss on you. She likes to pat your back and belly. She tries to feed you bottles. Trust me, I never let her do this to you when
the bottle is full, because you would end up having the formula either in your
eyes or nostrils. She gets a hold of the
bottle when we are done feeding you and the bottle is empty. It hardly ever actually makes it into your
mouth, but it does get to the other “holes” on your face. You don’t seem to mind. She also tries to give you the pacifier and
wipe your face with the burp cloth. I
love watching this because it is such a vision of what your relationship may look
like. Everyone tells me not to get use
to it. I know you will have your
arguments with Ava, but you can get along and not be at each other’s
throats. I think it can be done and we
are going to push for that kind of relationship in you two.
Sally, you light up our lives. You have challenged me as a mommy
already. But in a good way. You are very special and have a very angelic
way about you. I know that you will
light up others lives just like you do ours.
May you always allow God to write His name all over your heart.
I love you,
Mommy